Social dismissiveness

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Belonging or being included in a community is a privilege for highly creative people and outcasts. Nobody feels comfortable approaching them, doesn’t know how to approach them or how to handle conversations with them properly.

It’s weird for Stereotypical people who are the majority.

It’s weird to see someone weird, behaving unusually, thinking differently, and speaking in abstract, nonconcrete words.

Who do they think they are these weird people? We have our standard way of living and behaving. It’s the right way. They are disturbing us. Are they hurting us? No, but we don’t like seeing them different than us. It bothers us. They are a minority who should comply with the mainstream social system and make efforts to be included. They should forget about their weirdness.

Are they capable of changing their weirdness?

They should be.

They can change their way of expressing themselves, but the concepts and ideas they are expressing are reflections of who they are naturally, psychologically speaking. Do you think they should suppress these expressions?

For sure.

Don’t you like new solutions for problems that nobody could solve before?

Yes but they need to be normal to understand the problem.

Understanding a problem is dissociated from a creative person personal life. Yes he/she maybe disconnected from reality but studying the problem enough is usually more than enough to understand.

I don’t like these people. Why are you defending them?

I believe that everyone on earth has a gift and a set of skills that are useful for humanity. If you don’t like them, it’s normal. You are both very different and can’t understand each other. However, many can benefit from them and they have the right to live their life like you have the right to live. It’s not a matter of big numbers. A human being is precious even if he’s/she is evil. You stop their evilness but you don’t kill them.

It’s a waste of time and risky to care about these people. Destroying them brings peace of mind.

So creating new valuable things and solving complex problems is not important for you? Don’t you think being selfish is also a soul disease that will rob you of some joy and create psychological black holes in your psyche?

Oh my god. You started to talk like them. They are influencing you in a bad way. You must distance yourself from them.

I can’t. I’m one of them in disguise.

So stay away from me.

Ok after I finish fixing your new washing machine.

Yes after that.

I also found a way to get your kids in time for school every day.

What are you talking about?

Sorry, I need to stay away from you from now on.

Wait. Don’t be silly. If you don’t annoy me with this kind of conversations, I will not have a problem with you.

I think differently.

I don’t care. Just don’t tell me about your thoughts. Solve my problems, create things that make me feel good and we are good.

So we are friends for benefit.

Yes you can say that.

I didn’t ask for more from you specifically. You can deal with me to the extent of your capacity.

Sounds good. See you later. Bye!


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