An ENFP woman asks me how to be president: What does she need psychologically?

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First of all, I’m an attractive woman. A big part of me is feminine, I’m very emotional inside of me. How can narrow-minded men take me seriously?

I’m smart and intuitive, love to manage new projects, crave talking about new ideas, and create new patterns and plans.

How can Chimpanzee-like men see it obviously?

I have a huge potential as a human. I’m not a stereotypical woman. Yes, a big part of me is feminine, but I hide it when dealing with men because they will underestimate me. I may hide it in front of other women sometimes when I’m in charge but it depends on the woman in front of me.

Some modern Men are pro-women. Can they be on my side? They seem feminine and the ones I know are just like friends and have nothing to do with my work. They are unaware of my potential. I’m more than what I appear!

I’m tired of this old mindset. The future belongs to Women. Don’t they know that? Well, they are too stupid to see it. I can see into the future. If I’m being honest with myself, some of my previous thoughts don’t seem coherent with the other thoughts 💬. Why do I have this feeling? I will ask Simedba. I don’t like him a lot. Yes, he’s attractive, but he’s too harsh while he’s always honest with the thoughts he presents to the world.

I can trust he will not lie to me. Actually, I like him a little bit. I love his intuition, individuality, and desire to help people. My future husband must have these traits. Whoa 😳! Where am I going with this? Damn it ADHD! Not now. I’m trying to focus and answer a crucial question for my future.

Simed are you there?

Yes dear ENFP woman. I heard your monologue. What can I say? I’m proud of your ambition and looking a lot further than a planned manicure. I’m very aware that you are smart, creative, energetic and ambitious. I know you are can manage new projects, talk to hundreds of people, multi task and get things done ✅ on a list.

I admire you when you are feminine, kind, and have a high emotional intelligence. When you are social, influencer, innovative, moderate debates, speak your truth based on your raw feelings, not the spoke person of institutions that you believe in only some days.

You don’t like me when I’m cold, make hard judgments, or dismiss other people logic. Let’s see how the equivalent happens to you:

When you are in the Ne-Te Loop like my Ni-Ti loop, you are pushy without argumentation, don’t take into account people ‘s feelings, overlook what you like and bypass your values. You just want to get it done. Do you think people like you when you are in this state?

The answer is No. You are not using your biggest potential and are leaning heavily on one dimension of psyche. I get it. You just want it to get things done. You had to!

Wrong. You have to when you have to apply it to yourself in personal projects that you profoundly believe in and are aligned with your values. Not a job or a project given by someone else. You didn’t take the time to evaluate. You just jumped in in a hurry. You are energetic and extroverted, but times for reflection are necessary. Otherwise, you will end up wasting time on wrong paths and dead ends.

I think I’m gentle talking to you now. I meet ENFP women all the time. Some of them, especially the older mature ones, seem perfect for me from the outside. It’s my subconscious and unconscious, both talking, even if I’m aware of many ENFP flaws. When I meet them, I don’t see these flaws yet. I just see a wonderful woman who has all the qualities. I may be biased when I meet you but trust me when we are apart, I can dissect and evaluate a lot.

Now let’s move on to your presidential election.

You are a people person. So, your approach to the presidency should be different. You understand people very well when you are past mid-life in general. You became more emotional and more feminine than before. Wiser, more patient more sympathetic, and aligned with your values. Yes, you became a better person with all the knowledge and experiences. But did you become mainly better at management or in other areas?

The answer is that you evolved emotionally, socially, and on a personal level with your values and stability. You don’t need all these new experiences like before. You need less now.

I believe you can be a wonderful president, but not the way the presidency is structured right now. You need a new order. This new order is getting closer. Influencers have more importance in our lives so will your suitability for the presidency in a new system that is people hearts-based and values breadth of knowledge.

So when you have a lot of knowledge and can see the big picture and connect to people deeply, you are a guide to the nation, country, and communities. Other people execute the plans you designed with your teams and deliver timely data based on digital monitoring.

Artificial intelligence suggests patterns and courses of action. You can be intuitive and smart enough to see through the disparate data and connect the dots. Traditional managers will be overwhelmed by the quantity of information but not you. Nevertheless, you must have a Ti user with you at all times. Whether you agree with him or her, it doesn’t matter. You need his/her input to evaluate, criticize, detect the flaws and solve problems.

You are at the top of a country. You don’t have the right to be arrogant. You make fun of toxic masculinity. Well the egotistical view of the world and I can do it myself attitude have the same catastrophic outcomes.

An INTP, ENTP, INFJ are a must to have on your teams. Whether you think they don’t grasp politics, are not pragmatic enough or too judgmental, they may think you are stupid without telling you. However, the more you interact with them and listen actively to their ideas that may seem foreign to you at the beginning, the more you will like each other, respect each other and start seeing each other powers and strengths with admiration.

Of course, your favorite INFP needs to be close too and talks to him/her about how you feel as often as possible. An INTJ is crucial in your plans design and strategies crafting.

Well now you are of pillar team members that you must surround yourself with. They are your close circle. Of course, you will meet with all personality types, give tasks to competent people regardless of personality type, hear everyone perspective especially pragmatic, terrain people that are managing daily.

I know that you when have your ideal team, you can be an ideal president. No president can run a country without his counsel and close circle. The less value presidents gave to counseling and their managers’ input, they became dictators, blindsided and not aware of the mistrust that was building around them.

You are a new version of presidents. Be an improved version in your areas of strength 💪

Big kiss 😘,

Talk to you another time!

Bye.


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